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Secret to Making Your Ex Return Your Call

Getting Your Ex to Return Your Call

Are there ‘magic’ words you can use to get your ex to return your phone calls?

Sounds hard to believe but there ARE words that will nearly cast a spell and make your ex feel almost compelled to return your call.

Cool huh?…

I am going to share this with you because this is one of the biggest questions from the over 35,000 subscribers just like you that are trying to put their relationship back together.

So I am going to answer…”How do I get my ex to return my phone call, text or IM?”

BUT…

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WARNING!
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In the Magic Of Making Up, I lay out a complete strategy.

If you use this technique alone, without an ‘overall’ plan or strategy…you may damage your relationship more than if they never returned your call.

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What NOT to Say!
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Before we get into the actual words, let’s go over what message almost NEVER works.

and worse…

Puts you in an AWFUL ‘psychological’ position.

These usually fall into 2 categories.

The PLEAD- Where the message sounds like

“John, please, please call me. This is the 3rd time I have called. I HAVE to talk to you.”

And the EMERGENCY

“Cindy, this is an emergency. Please call me as soon as you get this.”

Now, I think you can see what is wrong with
both of those approaches?

So, I won’t go on and on…

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How To Use Curiosity & Self Interest To Your Advantage
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Two of the most powerful forces in the human mind are

  1. Curiosity &
  2. Self Interest

And here’s the BIG SECRET!

When you combine the two, you have a recipe that WILL work ‘magic’

So…

Let’s look at what you can say that works nearly EVERY TIME.

In a friendly tone:

“Hi John. It’s Cindy. I wanted to let you know I appreciate what you did for me. Call me because I want to thank you in person.”

Do you see how that uses BOTH curiosity
and self interest?

John will NOT be able to resist! “What did I do?” “What does she appreciate?” he will be thinking. And he feels good because it is a positive message.

Now…

Before you call you need to do the “Set Up”…which is figuring out what he/she did that you appreciate.

It can be any small thing…but needs to be plausible.

But more importantly…

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2nd WARNING!
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Please have an underlying strategy like I lay out in the Magic Of Making Up System BEFORE you call.

 

If you apply this technique with no underlying strategy and they call you back you can do more DAMAGE than good if you do not handle it correctly.

Okay?

What I am saying is…

What you do before, during and after you get them to return your call is MORE important than getting them to return your call.

Make sense?

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I Miss My Ex Boyfriend

I Miss My Ex Boyfriend – How To Cope

will my ex boyfriend ever miss meAre you saying, “I miss my ex boyfriend” and wondering what you’re going to do? Losing a boyfriend is a painful thing, especially if you really love him. And unfortunately, “I miss my ex boyfriend” is a common cry these days.

You have to decide when the time comes to stop saying, “I miss my ex boyfriend!” and start saying, “I’m going to get my boyfriend back!” It’s hard enough to be missing him without having to worry about strategies to get him back, but they’re important.

These strategies will work even if there’s no chance of you getting back together. They’ll work by helping you feel better about yourself and your situation. It might not be easy to face the fact that you may not get back together, no matter what you do, and that’s normal.

While you’d probably rather hear about that surefire method of getting your boyfriend back, there is no such magic bullet. No one thing is going to miraculously work for every split up couple. If that were the case, then everyone would stay together, for the most part. Or when they did split up, no one would really be hurt by it.

So you can forget about guarantees and absolutes. Everything you try might not work at all. But at least you’ve tried everything you knew how to try, and that’s more than most people will ever do.

“I miss my ex boyfriend” is the battle cry of many women who’ve been involved with break ups .It happens to almost everyone at least once; and for some people, it’s happened more than once. They got through it and came out all right on the other side, and so will you. That’s important to remember.

It’s also important to remember that even though you do everything you know how to do to get your ex back, it may not work, but that doesn’t mean you’re a failure. The tendency is to blame yourself when this doesn’t work out. But for all you know, he has different reasons for wanting to break up and they aren’t things that can be fixed, in his opinion.

As frustrating as it is, his opinion is the one that matters most to him. If he believes it’s hopeless, it’ll be very hard for you to change his mind. You may end up just getting hurt worse if you try to.

But if he seems open to the idea that you want to get back together, then you probably have a much better chance of getting him again. In the long run, getting him back into the relationship after a breakup is the easy part. Keeping him interested for the long haul can be a whole different thing.

Carefully consider when you’re trying to get him back if it’s just that you don’t want to be alone, or that you want to be with him. You don’t want “I still miss my ex boyfriend” to turn into  “I want to break up with him.”

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